Charlotte and 'Our House'
Three weeks after moving into their new home in Tremonton, the Kendall family returned from Bear Lake through a canyon — the same kind of canyon that used to lead to their old rental in Eden. Their three-year-old daughter Charlotte woke up and began screaming, terrified they were going to the old house. 'I don't want to go to the old house. I want to go to our house.' In three weeks, belonging had already shifted for a child who had not yet learned the word equity.
Key Lessons
- • The value of a home cannot be measured in dollars — belonging begins before the boxes are unpacked
- • Stability registers emotionally in children faster than adults often realize
- • Homeownership creates a place of psychological permanence for families
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